Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Stylist Punk


Changing the style every now and then is a fun idea.

I'm in a mood to mix things up today, which is healthy --- changing my approach or style every now and then is a good idea.

Just feels to stray too far from my usual routines, or else I will get too preoccupied with managing people's reactions!

Shop at the same stores for new outfits, but pick out some new colors I don't usually wear. Like pink or purple?

Change is good, but it shouldn't come too abruptly right now. I should always stay true to who I am.

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Monday, December 29, 2008

Happy BestDay to ME...Yesterday



Age is just a number
Love is blind
Life is unpredictable
Death is certain
ALLAH is everthing

ALLAHUAKBAR...

Today, I do not let what other people are doing with their money influence what I do with mine. Even, my new potential lover is going shopping today.

If their recent investments have turned out to be good ones, it might be too late for me to hop on the bandwagon.

Easy money is not worth very much, and I am capable of enriching my coffers the old-fashioned way -- by earning cash!

My financial goals are unique to me, so just copying another person's plan is not going to be very useful.

I just go, see, fit it and buy it...no question ask!!!

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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Drama, Drama, Drama


If someone is rude, try not to take it personally.

I should watch out for any spontaneous comments that come out of the mouths of friends or coworkers today. These people could be misspeaking, or they could be finally saying what they really feel deep down inside.

No matter why they're saying or what they are saying, I just need to try to handle it with my usual aplomb.

As usual, do not react in a negative way. If I get defensive or take it personally, it's just only create a bigger drama than really want to deal with.

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Saturday, December 13, 2008

Happy Weekend at Home

Going out with friends and having lots of fun is a great thing to do.
But I feels that it's should not be doing it every single night, especially on weekend.

If all I do is go out and socialize, I might be avoiding something that I need to deal with. I feels it is time to stay closer to home for a while. Get back in touch with myself, and lets think about the things I haven't wanted to think about, like my big plan to FCUK?

They are not that bad.

Big issues tend to crumble if I look at them honestly and try to dissect them.

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Thursday, December 4, 2008

Fire my brain


Today, I feel my creativity is on fire right now. It's time to try and use it to my advantage!

I hope it will help me to see new uses for old tools, a quick solution to a nagging problem, and even a fun way to put a smile on someone's face. My perspective is fresh and innovative now, and while my visions might alienate a few folks who just don't get it. I feel this might be a right time to impress and entertain the majority of the people who will be around today. It's a day when I can score a lot of points.

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Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Mathematic is Beautiful

Sejak naik turun harga minyak, aku jadi suka matematik. Kerana matematik membuka mata aku utk melihat sejauh mana aku kena tipu. Tu sebabnya kita kena jadi pandai mengira supaya tak terkena tipu-menipu dalam menjual-beli.

Hari ni kerajaan umum nak turunkan harga minyak lagi limablas syen. Terus aku check harga minyak terkini dipasaran dunia. Latest aku check jadik USD54.39 setong. Ok. Jom kita start kira.

1 tong = 159 liter = USD54.39
USD1 = RM3.5974
So, 159 liters = USD54.39 = RM195.66

Oleh itu, 1 liter = RM1.23
Subsidi kerajaan = RM0.30 seliter,
Maka RM1.23-0.30 = RM0.93

Harga kita kena bayar = RM2.00
Duit kita bagi free kat kerajaan = RM2.00 – RM0.93 = RM1.06

Seronok ke? Ermmm...
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It's Just Co-incidence

I was dreaming last nite. My recent dreams have been vivid and rather entertaining, but do they hold valuable insight into how I can find happiness? No, I don't think so.

They're just ideas my subconscious is playing with, and nothing more. I should be careful not to read too much into the numbers that keep popping up. I might play them in the lottery, but don't expect a big win.

My prosperity is much more likely to come as a result of my hard work right now. Money still has to be earned (mostly on the payday...!).

Sunday, November 30, 2008

No One Perfect!

There is a big disconnect between what people are saying and what they are doing today. There's a bit of hypocrisy going on, but it might not be in my best interest to make a big deal about it.

After all, when I point a finger at someone else, there are four more pointing back at me.

It's time to be loose about what I expect from people. No one is perfect, and everyone deserves a second chance in life from time to time. I'll need one some day for myself.
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P/S: Heaven, I need your guidance to success in my every businesses!

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Monday, November 24, 2008

Hope and Goal to Move

It might be time to give up on a goal - I had high hopes, but things don't seem to be panning out the way I wanted them to.
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And it's wise to know when to cut my losses and move on. Sometimes the pain of letting go is far less than the pain I'll feel if I keep banging my head against a wall. So, if that cutie just isn't succumbing to my charms, then I might find a new cutie. Or if that goal just seems to getting farther from my reach, then I should reach for a new one.
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Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Sembahyang tanda bersyukur

Oleh RAMLI ABDUL HALIM - Utusan - 27-Oct-2008

SEMBAHYANG lima waktu yang diwajibkan ke atas umat Nabi Muhammad SAW yang merupakan penghulu bagi segala anbia yang juga merupakan nabi dan rasul akhir zaman pada hakikatnya mempunyai nilai yang cukup tinggi kerana proses penerimaan perintah sembahyang oleh Rasulullah itu sendiri bukannya satu kerja mudah.

Berbanding dengan nabi-nabi lain yang mula melakukan sembahyang atas beberapa faktor, tetapi ibadat sembahyang yang diwajibkan ke atas umat Nabi Muhammad SAW diterima perintah oleh baginda secara terus dari Allah dengan baginda dibawa ke Sidratul Muntaha yang letaknya melepasi lapisan langit ketujuh.

Sidratul Muntaha itu sendiri adalah tempat yang tidak boleh didatangi oleh manusia lain, kecuali Nabi Muhammad, malah para malaikat juga tidak boleh ke sana.

Pemergian baginda SAW pada malam 27 Rejab tahun ke-11 kerasulan baginda (yakni dalam tahun 622 Masihi) dinamakan Israk Mikraj yang mana selain daripada menerima perintah kewajipan sembahyang, baginda juga berpeluang berjumpa dengan para nabi dan rasul, malah berkesempatan beramah mesra.

Rasulullah juga dipertontonkan dengan manusia yang menanggung seksa kerana memusuhi Allah dan Rasul-Nya serta mereka yang menikmati nikmat kerana bertakwa kepada Allah. Pada mulanya sembahyang yang diperintahkan adalah sebanyak 50 waktu.

Macam mana pun atas cadangan dan desakan Nabi Musa a.s. yang menyebabkan Rasulullah SAW berulang alik naik turun Sidratul Muntaha, maka jumlah waktu sembahyang hanya tinggal lima waktu sehari semalam sahaja.

Nabi Musa yang merasakan jumlah sembahyang lima waktu sehari semalam itu akan malas dilakukan oleh umat Nabi Muhammad meminta baginda membuat rayuan pengurangan jumlah waktu sembahyang tetap baginda enggan kerana malu kepada Allah.

Sebenarnya sembahyang lima waktu itu adalah himpunan sembahyang-sembahyang yang telah dilakukan oleh lima orang nabi dan rasul kerana ada sebab dan peristiwanya sebagaimana berikut;

SUBUH: Manusia pertama yang mengerjakan sembahyang subuh adalah Nabi Adam a.s. iaitu ketika baginda keluar dari syurga lalu diturunkan ke dunia.

Semasa dikeluarkan dari syurga dan diturunkan ke dunia kerana kesalahan memakan buah khuldi yang dilarang, yang pertama yang dilihat oleh bagi ialah kegelapan.

Baginda berasa sangat takut. Macam mana pun apabila fajar menjelang Subuh dunia mulai terang dan kerana bersyukur apabila dunia mula menampakkan akan terang dan tidak gelap lagi, Nabi Adam a.s. pun bersembahyang dua rakaat.

Rakaat pertama sembahyang baginda adalah sebagai tanda bersyukur kerana baginda terlepas dari kegelapan malam manakala rakaat kedua adalah bersyukur kerana siang telah menjelma.

Zuhur: Manusia pertama yang mengerjakan solat Zuhur ialah Nabi Ibrahim a.s. iaitu tatkala Allah SWT memerintahkan baginda agar menyembelih anak baginda Nabi Ismail a.s. sebagai melepas nazar baginda.

Seruan itu datang pada waktu tergelincir matahari (bertepatan dengan waktu Zohor), lalu sujudlah Nabi Ibrahim sebanyak empat rakaat.

Rakaat pertama kerana bersyukur bagi penebusan, rakaat kedua tanda bersyukur kerana dibukakan dukacitanya dan juga anaknya, rakaat ketiga: tanda bersyukur dan memohon keredaan Allah SWT manakala rakaat keempat tanda bersyukur kerana korbannya digantikan dengan tebusan kibas.

Asar: Manusia pertama yang mengerjakan solat Asar ialah Nabi Yunus a.s. tatkala baginda dikeluarkan oleh Allah SWT dari perut ikan Nun.

Ikan Nun telah memuntahkan Nabi Yunus di tepi pantai, sedang ketika itu telah masuk waktu Asar. Sebagai tanda syukur kerana dikeluarkan dari perut ikan Nun, maka Nabi Yunus a.s. bersembahyang empat rakaat kerana baginda telah diselamatkan oleh Allah daripada 4 kegelapan iaitu:

Rakaat pertama tanda syukur dari bebas dari kelam dengan kesalahan, rakaat kedua bersyukur kerana kelam dengan air laut, rakaat ketika kerana kelam malam dan rakaat keempat kerana kelam perut ikan Nun.

Maghrib: Manusia pertama yang mengerjakan solat Maghrib ialah Nabi Isa a.s. iaitu ketika baginda dikeluarkan oleh Allah SWT dari kejahilan dan kebodohan kaumnya, yang di kala itu telah terbenamnya matahari.

Kerana tanda bersyukur bagi sembahyang tiga rakaat dengan rakaat tanda bersyukur kerana baginda berjaya menafikan ketuhanan selain dari Allah yang Esa, rakaat tanda bersyukur kerana berjaya menafikan tohmahan ke atas bonda baginda Siti Mariam yang telah dituduh melakukan perbuatan sumbang manakala rakaat ketiga tanda bersyukur kerana berjaya menyatakan kepada kaum baginda bahawa Tuhan itu hanya satu iaitu Allah SWT, tiada dua atau tiganya.

Isyak: Manusia pertama yang mengerjakan solat Isyak ialah Nabi Musa a.s.. Pada ketika itu, Nabi Musa telah tersesat untuk mencari jalan kfeluar dari negeri Madyan.

Sedang dalam dadanya penuh dengan perasaan dukacita kerana sesat ekoran doa seorang alim yang diupah oleh Firaun agar mendoakan supaya Nabi Musa a.s.

Orang alim dan doanya sangat mustajab itu pada mulanya enggan akur kepada arahan Firaun dan enggan menerima upahan dalam bentuk jongkong emas kerana diketahuinya bahawa Nabi Musa a.s. adalah nabi dan rasul.

Hasil siasatan oleh pegawai-pegawai perisikan Firaun mendapati orang alim itu sangat sayangkan isteri dan dia adalah seorang suami yang sering mengalah kepada isteri.

Kelemahan itu diambil kesempatan oleh Firaun dengan memberi upah emas kepada isteri orang alim itu supaya meminta suaminya berdoa supaya Nabi Musa a.s. sesat di padang pasir negeri Madyan.

Bila diminta dan dirayu dan direngek oleh isterinya, orang alim itu tidak dapat menolak. Bagaimanapun, dia memberi syarat akan berdoa dalam kandang kuda.

Orang alim itu menyangka bila berdoa pada tempat yang kotor, doanya tidak akan mustajab. Macam mana pun doanya tetap mustajab dan Nabi Musa a.s. tersesat manakala orang alim itu mati dalam keadaan berdosa kerana mengikut kemahuan Firaun.

Bagaimana Allah SWT menghilangkan semua perasaan dukacitanya Nabi Musa a.s. apabila beliau akhirnya tidak lagi sesat dan ketika itu adalah waktu Isyak yang akhir. Sebagai tanda syukurnya, Nabi Musa bersembahyang empat rakaat dengan rakaat pertama tanda syukur kerana baginda akan dapat kembali ke pangkuan isteri dan kampung halaman. Rakaat kedua tanda bersyukur kerana dapat bersua kembali dan berganding bahu dengan saudara Nabi Harun a.s. bagi menyampaikan seruan Allah.

Rakaat ketiga pula kerana selamat daripada tindakan Firaun manakala rakaat keempat tanda bersyukur selamat daripada pengkhianatan anak Firaun terhadap baginda dan umat baginda yang bertakwa.

Ertinya kesemua waktu sembahyang yang diwajibkan ke atas umat Nabi Muhammad adalah merupakan amalan-amalan tanda ketakwaan terhadap Allah oleh para nabi dan rasul dan nilainya tidak boleh disamakan dengan apa jua bentuk kebendaan.

Kalau nabi dan rasul pun bersembahyang sebagai tanda syukur dan untuk melayakkan diri masuk ke syurga, siapa kita yang bukan nabi dan rasul untuk tidak sembahyang di samping melakukan pelbagai kemungkaran dengan bila mati kita mahukan syurga!

RAMLI ABDUL HALIM adalah murid tua (bekas pelajar) Madrasah Al-Balaghulmubin Rong Chenak, Tok Uban, Pasir Mas, Kelantan.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Reasons I Still Not Rich


Many people assume they aren't rich because they don't earn enough money. If I only earned a little more, I could save and invest better, they say.

The problem with that theory is they were probably making exactly the same argument before their last several raises. Becoming a millionaire has less to do with how much you make, it's how you treat money in your daily life.

The list of reasons you may not be rich doesn't end at 10. Caring what your neighbors think, not being patient, having bad habits, not having goals, not being prepared, trying to make a quick buck, relying on others to handle your money, investing in things you don't understand, being financially afraid and ignoring your finances.

Here are 10 more possible reasons you aren't rich:

You care what your car looks like: A car is a means of transportation to get from one place to another, but many people don't view it that way. Instead, they consider it a reflection of themselves and spend money every two years or so to impress others instead of driving the car for its entire useful life and investing the money saved.

You feel entitlement: If you believe you deserve to live a certain lifestyle, have certain things and spend a certain amount before you have earned to live that way, you will have to borrow money. That large chunk of debt will keep you from building wealth.

You lack diversification: There is a reason one of the oldest pieces of financial advice is to not keep all your eggs in a single basket. Having a diversified investment portfolio makes it much less likely that wealth will suddenly disappear.

You started too late: The magic of compound interest works best over long periods of time. If you find you're always saying there will be time to save and invest in a couple more years, you'll wake up one day to find retirement is just around the corner and there is still nothing in your retirement account.

You don't do what you enjoy: While your job doesn't necessarily need to be your dream job, you need to enjoy it. If you choose a job you don't like just for the money, you'll likely spend all that extra cash trying to relieve the stress of doing work you hate.

You don't like to learn: You may have assumed that once you graduated from college, there was no need to study or learn. That attitude might be enough to get you your first job or keep you employed, but it will never make you rich. A willingness to learn to improve your career and finances are essential if you want to eventually become wealthy.

You buy things you don't use: Take a look around your house, in the closets, basement, attic and garage and see if there are a lot of things you haven't used in the past year. If there are, chances are that all those things you purchased were wasted money that could have been used to increase your net worth.

You don't understand value: You buy things for any number of reasons besides the value that the purchase brings to you. This is not limited to those who feel the need to buy the most expensive items, but can also apply to those who always purchase the cheapest goods. Rarely are either the best value, and it's only when you learn to purchase good value that you have money left over to invest for your future.

Your house is too big: When you buy a house that is bigger than you can afford or need, you end up spending extra money on longer debt payments, increased taxes, higher upkeep and more things to fill it. Some people will try to argue that the increased value of the house makes it a good investment, but the truth is that unless you are willing to downgrade your living standards, which most people are not, it will never be a liquid asset or money that you can ever use and enjoy.

You fail to take advantage of opportunities: There has probably been more than one occasion where you heard about someone who has made it big and thought to yourself, "I could have thought of that." There are plenty of opportunities if you have the will and determination to keep your eyes open.


Thursday, October 9, 2008

Second wives?

A WRITER'S LIFE By DINA ZAMAN on The Star, 9th October

Polygamy has nothing to do with culture or religion. Men, and women too, cheat because they can.

WHEN a male friend told me he planned on taking a second wife, all I could do was try not to choke on dinner. Are you serious, I asked. He said yes, he had fallen in love with a single mother, but it was not his fate to marry her.

Thinking it was perhaps due her compassion, her earnest desire to bring up her sprogs in a Godly way and that life was indeed a struggle, I choked on my dessert when my friend told me the first thing he noticed about her was that she owned a great set of jugs.

Now, my friend takes his religious obligations very seriously. His first wife wears the hijab. So to hear him admit that it was his paramour’s cleavage that caught his heart was quite shocking.

It was due to women like me, whose so-called Western, secular and feminist ideas of polygamy that pushed it underground. I then asked him, whether his equally-pious wife agreed to him taking on another wife, and he said no. She gave him an earful.

But our friend was on a roll. Now that his journey into polygamy was thwarted, it was all our fault. We modern Malay women, be they religious or not, were forcing men like him to marry in Thailand or Iran, where they practised nikah Muta’ah.

He was emulating the steps of our good Prophet Mohamed, he argued.

“You have got your Islamic history upside down! Nabi married war widows, and his first wife was older than he. Aishah was the youngest. And I don’t think our Prophet married any woman because she had great breasts!”

“You don’t understand.”

“Okay then. Why don’t you sell your car and take a camel to work then?”

I’m realistic. I know men who adore their wives and love them to bits, but they can still love their mistresses and other wives. Am I condoning affairs and polygamy? No. But this happens. It has nothing to do with Islam or being Malay, though polygamy is part of the culture.

We’re Asians. We have a long history of concubinage. There are good men who are faithful, and there are good men who have other wives. There are also bad men who are faithful and also bad men who are unfaithful.

Just like our politics, love in Malaysia is a circus. Weeee!

I’m not going to bore you with what polygamy in Islam is about, as it has been written before and talked about to death. Women’s rights activists have long fought for this “crime” to be illegal, but we face a tough fight. Sometimes it’s not the men who are itching for it, but yes, our gender, too.

In the 80s, when I was young and clueless, meeting mistresses and second or third wives would be sinful and against my principles.

These days? “Oh, you’re a mistress?” “Oh, you’re a hidden wife?” Yawn. Wear tudung or mini skirt, got. Educated or stupid, got. Some of our mothers are The Other Women, and are good mothers. So how?

Is this phenomenon particular to our culture? Oh no. Read the British newspapers. Mistressing is talked about to death in feminist columns.

But I thought after that dinner with my friend, I’d revisit the issue again. Some of the findings from my five-sen survey:

1). Theoretically ... polygamy is OK. But must ikut hukum Allah lah. There are conditions.

2). Ya, but… actually, kan, for career women like us, it does work. Nak jaga laki 24 jam … gue tak larat la. Biar bini nombor satu jaga. After all, in Islam, polygamous wives are taken care of legally. Better a Muslim second wife than a common law wife.

3). But really. Think about it. Convenient, what. You see him once a week, makan once a week, have sex once a week...

4). Sex once a week?! Baik tak yah jadi bini nombor dua macam tu! Chit. Once a week mana cukup?!

Why do men cheat? Again, just an observation dwelled upon by friends and myself. For a lot of polygamous men, they marry good women who fit their criteria of holiness, wifeliness and motherhood.

Intimacy between the men and their wives are perfunctory. It’s make-the-baby-cover-the-face sex. With their girlfriends and second wives, it’s Penthouse all the way, baby. It’s the soul thing.

At least this is what I got from talking to quite a number of married men. It’s not because of the first wives’ lack of trying; they want to have healthy intimate lives, but the bees in their husbands’s bonnets keep reminding the men of the Madonna-Whore syndrome.

Malaysia is not a place for single women desiring Hollywood-movie type of marriages and love. KL especially is a city for marriages and affairs. And it has nothing to do with money. There are rich men who cheat, and I know of a despatch boy who has two wives!

There are many single-again women like my friends and I, who still believe in marriage and love. But I can tell you, should we walk down that path again one day, we’re going down it with our eyes open and keep a part of our hearts to ourselves. Because you never know.

Perhaps my friend, an activist who makes a living entering and staying in war zones, is right.

“We have women like you, me, your mother, your aunt and friend who fight so hard for women and children and yet face a brick wall, simply because we ‘understand’ so much, and forgive all the time, which is why cheating, affairs and polygamy are rampant, to the detriment or contribution (depends how you look at it) of our well-being,” says my friend.

Another friend, Sharizal Sharaani, put it succinctly: “Men (and, yes, women too) cheat because they can. Full stop.”

The writer still believes in love and marriage and wants to move to Corfu.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Building Relationships

Theodore Roosevelt once said that “the most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people”.

Indeed, having good relationships with your colleagues, customers, vendors and so on is key to your career and business success. It is even more so if the business that you are in has everything to do with people, for example, insurance.

“Building relationships with customers is an important aspect of our business. The stronger the relationship is, the more trust the customer will have in you and the more likely he or she will buy from you again or refer new customers to you,” says Yeap Chiang Ning, a wealth planner with Prudential Assurance Malaysia Berhad.

There are countless ways in which a solid business relationship can be built, depending on the nature of the business, personalities of the individuals or what the ultimate objectives are. Building relationships is key to business success.

However, as any sales or insurance agent would agree, successful relationships take time to flourish. The real challenge therefore lies in one’s ability to nurture these relationships and turn them into long-term partnerships which are mutually rewarding.

Here are a few simple tips to help you build that lasting relationship with your customers;

Be sincere

Build a relationship with your customers not because you have to, but because you want to and you genuinely believe that you can help make a positive impact on their lives. Consumers today are becoming more discerning and they can tell whether you are sincere or not almost immediately.

James Chui, a Prudential wealth planner who is based in Petaling Jaya, offers an interesting perspective: “Just remember this - take care of your customers like how you would care for your girlfriend, wife and family members, and everything that you do will naturally come straight from the heart.”

You are important to me

No matter where your customers stand in society, they are your most valuable assets. Let them know that they are important to you and how much you appreciate their support.

Penang-based Yeap, who has been with Prudential since 2005, makes sure that she is always there for her customers whenever they need her help or advice. “I am prepared to go that extra mile for them. That’s the least I can do, not only as their servicing agent, but as their friend as well,” she says.

Educate them

Knowledge is power and what you know can enlighten and change another person, if you share it. “I constantly keep myself updated with new product knowledge and financial-related information. When I meet my customers for lunch or drinks, I will take the opportunity to share some of the knowledge which I have learnt with them. They like it a lot,” Yeap says.

Remember those special days

Everyone is delighted to have his or her birthday and anniversaries remembered. So, it will be good to keep a list of all your customers’ birthdays, anniversaries, special events, graduations and so on. When the date comes, don’t forget to send your customer something.

Peter Then, a Prudential wealth planner based in Kota Kinabalu, Sabah, believes that this little gesture will go a long way in strengthening the agent-customer relationship. “I like to surprise my customers with little treats on their special day. They appreciate the fact that I remember them on those special days. That means a lot to them,” he says.

In a nutshell, wealth planners are entrusted to look after their customers’ financial well-being by offering them a comprehensive suite of products. Beyond that, the wealth planner’s ability to connect with the customer through respect, sincerity, knowledge of the customer and what they want is crucial in building and maintaining a lasting relationship.

This is the key ingredient to make it in the insurance business and ultimately, be the face your customer can trust.

*Article by Prudential Assurance Malaysia Berhad

Saturday, September 27, 2008

First October = First Syawal



P/S:

Baju raya tahun lepas dipakai lagi,
Hari-hari dicuci biar berseri,
Blog diupdate sebagai pengganti diri,
Bukan sengaja lupakan tradisi,
Tapi ikut teknologi di hujung jari.

"SALAM KEMAAFAN DI AIDILFITRI",
Dari Yuzaidi.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Marketing Lesson

I see a gorgeous girl at a party. I go up to her and say, “I am very rich. Marry me!” That’s Direct Marketing.

I'm at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of my friends goes up to her and pointing at me says, “He’s very rich. Marry him.” That’s Advertising.

I see a gorgeous girl at a party. I go up to her and get her telephone number. The next day I call her and say, “Hi, I’m very rich. Marry me.” That’s Telemarketing.

I see a gorgeous girl at a party. I go up to her and say, “I’m rich. Marry me.” She gives me a nice hard slap on my face. That’s Customer Feedback.

P/S: I'm a good marketer...huhu

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Communicate to a being


Verbal communication will get distractions out of my system. Should I call up a friend?

Recent developments in my romantic life is on my mind, big time, today. In fact, they are keeping me from giving my full attention to other important matters and important people. So in order to clear the clouds from this head, I should need to talk it out. Verbal communication has long been one of my strengths, and today I hope it will help to get some distractions out of self system. Probably, call up friends and ask them if I can spill out a few guts to them. Wish they'll say yes -- they always do.

P/S: Thinking to organize break fast with my fellow IBMers today...

Thursday, September 18, 2008

F**k Lah’s economic

SEPT 18 — Wall Street Journal Asia

Opposition leader Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim announced this week that he has enough parliamentary support to unseat the current government, led by Prime Minister Datuk Seri Abdullah Ahmad Badawi. If he does, Abdullah's lacklustre economic management will be largely to blame.

The prime minister has not introduced any substantive reforms during his nearly five years in office, preferring to rely instead on opening up the government purse. Under the Ninth Malaysia Plan announced in 2005, he expanded public-sector spending to RM200 billion annually from RM160 billion. In his Midterm Plan Review this year, he increased this outlay to RM240 billion. The national debt now stands at RM285 billion, up from RM192 billion in 2004. The official fiscal deficit has risen to 4.8% of GDP this year, from 3.2% last year. Revenue is being spent faster than it is coming in.

It's hard to argue that these outlays have served the broad public interest. Much of the funding has been channelled to elites in the majority Malay community, under the country's pro-Malay affirmation action programme. That has created discontent with many Malay who don't see the full benefits of the programme, and among the minority Chinese and Indians, who are excluded from it altogether.

Abdullah's stewardship has had a real impact on the economy. Capital flight has risen sharply; Malaysian investment abroad now exceeds inward foreign investment. The Kuala Lumpur stock exchange has lost almost one-fifth of its value this year to date. Malaysia's currency, the ringgit, saw its biggest one-month loss last month since the end of the dollar peg in 2005. Although GDP growth has averaged a robust 5% annual growth under Abdullah, that record is now under threat. Inflation reached a record 8.5% this summer. Job creation has reached record lows, as unemployment, particularly among young majority Malays, remains high. Ironically, only the opposition-led state governments are attracting new foreign investment — and without the federal government's help, no less.

Abdullah's 2004 attempts to promote growth and investment — such as through the promotion of the biotechnology and agricultural industries — have failed. He also fumbled discussions with the United States on a free trade agreement, which have now stalled. What Malaysia really needs is education reform and the liberalisation of its labour markets to improve its economic competitiveness.

The political opposition, in the form of Anwar and his Pakatan Rakyat coalition, have seized on these issues. They have promised to root out corruption and to implement a new economic policy to address the concerns of all ethnic communities in Malaysia. Their platform aims to move beyond populist spending to introduce structural reforms in government procurement programmes and in the management of government-linked companies.

When Abdullah assumed office in 2004, he inherited an economy in need of structural reform. Malaysians have had to pay for his poor stewardship through higher prices, stagnating wages and growing private sector debt. Soon, Abdullah may have to pay the political price for that record.

Stay healthy with muslim diet


Some religions have tenets that govern what followers can and cannot eat. Muslims follow a halal diet, or “permissible” foods under Muslim dietary law. Foods that are forbidden are haraam and it's easier to list the foods that aren't allowed instead of what is allowed. The forbidden foods are meat from animals that die from disease or that are not killed by another Muslim, the meat of carnivores, all cuts of pork and pork products including JELL-O, cheeses made with pork renin, and alcohol.

Non-Muslims may think that a halal diet means eating vegetarian if their Muslim friends refuse meat at meals. Some Muslims may choose not to eat meat because they cannot be sure the meat is halal or they may choose to be vegetarian or vegan for other reasons. However, all other meat (chicken, beef, lamb, goat, fish) can be eaten as long as it is prepared accordingly and not contaminated by haraam foods. It's actually easy to eat a healthy and well-balanced diet when following a halal diet, and staying healthy on a Muslim diet is equally as easy.

Here is some more insights on what it means to follow this diet and how to go about staying healthy on a Muslim diet.

Healthy eating
Chapati and rice are staples of the Muslim diet. Chapati is made with whole wheat flour and whole grains tend to be nutrient-dense. They are high in fiber, vitamins and minerals and tend to have a low glycemic index. Eating more whole grains is associated with improved insulin sensitivity, better glycemic control and a reduced risk of cancer and cardiovascular disease, and it’s good for staying healthy on a Muslim diet. Eating chapati filled with vegetables and beans is a very healthy meal and can provide adequate amounts of fiber and protein.

When preparing rice, choose brown rice over white for its glycemic index. Brown rice won’t cause a rapid spike in blood sugar; it will provide fuel for your workout and keep you full longer. Rice and beans is a common meal across all cultures. They are complementary proteins and, when combined, they can provide all nine essential amino acids that are found in animal proteins.

Benefits of spices
Halal food is often prepared with an abundance of spice. The most common spice used is curry. Curry powder does have health benefits, and contributes to one staying healthy on a Muslim diet. Turmeric is an ingredient in curry that is an antioxidant and can lower the risk of developing colon cancer, heart disease and arthritis. There is another benefit to eating spicy foods; capsaicin found in hot peppers helps curb appetite and increases metabolic activity because it is a thermogenic agent. That can be a plus if you find yourself always reaching for unhealthy snacks with very low nutrient value. So, if you love the spicy foods you can prepare on a halal diet, go for it. You can add spice and flavor to meals by using ginger, curry, paprika, and red pepper. However, beware of some of the spice mixes; they are high in sodium.

If you work out, over time, the combined benefits of spicy food and strength training can increase metabolism. This is just one of the many ways staying healthy on a Muslim diet is possible.

Portion size
The halal diet encourages healthy eating, but it is important to eat enough. A 165 pound man needs approximately 2,800 to 3,200 calories a day to maintain his weight. The average man needs to ingest one gram of protein per kilogram of body weight. Adequate amounts of protein can be obtained from beans, nuts, eggs, yogurt, milk, and cheese. You need protein to build and repair muscle, skin and hair, but you don't have to overdo it. Roughly 25% to 30% of your calories should come from protein. One cup of milk has eight grams of protein. An eight ounce container of yogurt has about 11 grams of protein, a cup of beans has 16 grams of protein, and a three ounce cut of meat has about 21 grams of protein. The other 60% of your total daily calories should come from complex carbs and 10% to 15% should come from fats.

Losing weight on a Muslim diet
If you’re trying to lose weight, don't skip meals. Your body will assume it’s starving and your metabolism will slow down. This is counterproductive. Instead, cut calories by 500 per day. That will equal one pound of weight loss per week, which is healthy. To gain weight, increase your diet by 500 calories for a healthy weight gain of one to two pounds a week. Be sure to eat complex, not simple, carbohydrates. Choose low glycemic foods; they won't spike blood sugar too quickly. Cook with healthy fats, such as olive oil or canola oil. After your workouts, choose post-workout meals to replace utilized carbs and protein; a peanut butter and jelly sandwich is a good balance of protein and carbs.
healthy eating

P/S: As with any diet, when eating according to Muslim law on a halal diet, be sure you’re eating everything in moderation to stay healthy.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Jobs not to outsource

Unless you are an elected official or burn the midnight oil as a performer at an adult entertainment club, it is likely that you have had concern about losing your job to the winds of outsourcing at some point. This concern is certainly valid since some counts have nearly 1.6 million jobs moving overseas in 2010 -- up almost threefold since 2005. Furthermore, these are not just manufacturing jobs that we’re talking about. Of course, we’ve all heard of the computer programming and data entry jobs that find their way overseas to places like India, but the U.S. job marketplace is also starting to see jobs in sales, architecture, legal, and even management positions being outsourced.

Fortunately, the situation is not hopeless. In addition to the Bureau of Labor reporting that there are more workers in America than ever before, regardless of the outsourcing trend, there are many jobs that are unlikely to be outsourced. Here are a few to consider:

Health care
It is not exactly convenient to fly overseas when it comes time to visit the dentist or the doctor’s office. Furthermore, with a large segment of the population aging, we will also see record numbers of people entering nursing homes or assisted living facilities -- and odds are that these denizens will prefer to stay in the U.S. than relocate to an overseas facility for outsourced care. In short, people will need medical care and it needs to be in their backyard -- not a different country.

In addition to the traditional fields, such as a nurse or physician, there is a wealth of other positions that make the health-care field go. Consider a career as a pharmacist or pharmacy technician or perhaps a research or science career within a pharmaceutical company. Health-care administration and management is a rapidly growing field and allows for the application of an array of business and professional skills as well -- after all, health-care establishments are businesses and need to be properly run. As long as people live in this country, health care will remain here at home and the jobs that support the industry won’t be outsourced.

Construction
I think we can all safely say that it would be hard for someone overseas to build your house. Although many technological advances have been made through the years, buildings are still built the old fashioned way -- by hand. This is not to say that you should leave your office job to pour cement -- though it can be quite profitable.

Think about the industries that cater to construction. If you like being outside and tasked with the responsibility, a job as a construction manager might be your calling, especially since it’s not easy to crack the whip (among many other management duties) from an outsourced location across the ocean. Engineering jobs, regardless of the concentration, are also in demand in the U.S. and essential to the construction industry.

We have all heard that these types of jobs are being outsourced, but the reality is that they are not. Consider a country like India: it needs to keep as many of its engineers as possible since it has a population that’s roughly four times greater than the U.S.’s and shows far more construction and development growth than us. India also produces far fewer engineers than U.S. universities do. It would seem that for the foreseeable future, construction and engineering jobs will most likely remain intact and immune from outsourcing.

Real estate
Your house is here, the office building you work in is here, the land you want to buy is here, and the people that make real estate happen are here. Realtor and the myriad of other jobs that encompass the real estate industry -- everything from attorneys, mortgage officers, appraisers, insurance agents, and even decorators -- are possible career options that likely won’t be outsourced. Additionally, real estate is a highly regulated industry in the U.S. and many jobs require licenses that must be obtained and maintained. It is, therefore, difficult from a legal standpoint to outsource real estate jobs. Financial services, another highly regulated industry and one that also has the keep-it-at-home mentality, offers similar protection from outsourcing.

Education
The population of our country is growing and the enrollment rate at higher-education institutions is expected to grow at an even faster clip in the years to come. This means that there will be a demand for jobs in education and despite technological advances that enable online learning and courses, the vast majority of education will remain at brick-and-mortar facilities.

Even if you feel that you are not cut out to be a classroom teacher or a university professor, the trail of jobs within education does not stop there. Universities, in particular, operate as self-sustaining businesses with full finance, food service, administration, leadership, and security positions. Grade schools are also seeing an increase in jobs that are not typically thought to be related to teaching, such as guidance counselors, resource officers, speech pathologists, and even behavioral therapists.

You can even think beyond traditional schooling and turn to such things as working for a professional training or consulting firm or a continuing education firm. As long as people in this country seek education, whether it’s for children or professionals seeking to augment their career path with new skills, there will be a need for trained educators and supporting personnel -- none of which can be easily outsourced.

Public service
The military may also be an interesting option since there are countless jobs that run the machine, and most are not directly combat related. The jobs available in the military are as varied as in the civilian sector and because the military operates much like a business you can expect to find work in communications, management, food service, administration, personal care, therapy, technology and computers, finance, and much more.

USMilitary.com is a great resource that provides dozens of examples of job openings among the military branches along with the civilian equivalent of the job. Similar capacities, though not as diverse, are available through local public service organizations, such as the police or fire departments. The facts remain that you cannot fight a fire or serve and protect from overseas, and you have to be a citizen to serve in the military. Add those things together, and these jobs are certainly outsource proof.

Outsource outcry
Of course, the best vaccine you can have against losing your job to outsourcing is to ensure you continue to be valuable to your organization. If you continue to build on the knowledge and skills that make you integral to the success of your organization, it will be difficult to replace you -- especially from overseas. You may also want to consider the most outsource-proof job of all -- running your own business. Certainly, there are risks involved with that approach, but it will be totally up to you whether or not to outsource yourself. If none of the above interest you, you can always strive to become an elected official -- I doubt the U.S. will outsource its government anytime soon.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Mafia Lessons: Raise A Man



Even if you’ve yet to prove that your boys can swim, maybe you’ve already thought about how to take a boy and raise a man, and how to instill in him the virtues of manliness. The first step is to be clear about what manliness is. With many empty qualities floating out there for men to desperately cling to, it can be difficult to define. However, if you’re looking to raise a good old-fashioned paisan of a man who does well with the ladies, makes a good income and doesn’t shy away from cafones and the occasional rat, then don’t go anywhere -- Mafia Lesson has some foolproof tips up his sleeve for whipping a boy into shape without relying on such banned techniques as whipping, beating, spanking, and shaking (although… no, never mind). Here’s how to raise a man.

Put him in the ring
If you’ve ever seen the brilliant Martin Scorsese flick Raging Bull where Robert De Niro plays the former middleweight champ Jake La Motta, then you know that a boxing pedigree can help your kid be as tough as nails. Of course, most professional boxers also happen to be meatheads. All you want, though, is to toughen your boy up so that he’s able to deal with the school bully when the time comes.

Of course, another option is martial arts, but they’re a waste of time. Unless your kid goes on to be an MMA guy, there’s no use in learning karate or kung fu. Remember: This is Malaysia where bullies still use their fists to prove their point. And as kids get older, the situation doesn’t really change much since all you really need when dealing with slimy swindlers is how to land the first punch. And boxing will teach your kid how to sneak a surprise attack while also preparing him to block that first punch.

Teach him to shoot something
As with most things in life, timing is everything when you’re raising a kid. If your boy has a good head on his shoulders, there comes a time when he should learn how to handle a gun, as this will help you raise a man. Ideally, you would be an avid hunter who takes weekend deer-hunting trips or guns down quail to grill on Sunday nights. Nevertheless, boys are inevitably curious about guns, and it’s better that you show him how to shoot before he tracks down his own silly reasons for pretending he’s in a video game.

So, if you live in the city, take him to some grimy alley and let him shoot rats. If you live in the country but don’t hunt, line up a few empties and let him pop them off.

Give him some work
Everyone needs to work, even little guys. Too often, parents are content sending their kids to school and then sticking them in front of the TV or the computer when they get home. This is the lazy man’s approach to parenting and it will fry your son’s brain. You may recall your own youth and the kind of raging energy you had. Boys need to play, they need to compete in sports and they need to be outdoors. So, when he’s too young to hold down a job, make sure to keep him busy by having him paint the house, cut the grass or pick up the groceries.

It’s also a good idea to build the boy’s self-confidence by sending him on important errands that he can’t tell his mother about. Maybe this means spying on someone’s activities or being a low-level messenger. Either way, the idea is to provide the boy with things that are exciting, that teach him responsibility and that fuel ideas of his own self-worth.

Send him to a strict private school
The trouble with most public schools is that they’re chronically underfunded. Not only that, but there is no unifying vision at these places. Sure, anyone can go, but is it really in your son’s best interest to learn in a place where discipline is as obsolete as the guillotine? Instead, try a little old world order when you want to raise a man. A good strict school will teach your boy the values of tradition and history while instilling in him a reasonable sense of moral order. Besides, the reason many young kids fly off the handle and make terrible decisions when left to their own devices is because they’ve haven’t been taught anything about their past, their history or their ancestry. As a result, they’re so future-obsessed that they have no profound sense of right and wrong.

Take him to a strip club
Yes, the strip club, that timeless establishment where boys will be boys and women will strip. Aside from being a good rite of passage for a young man, the strip club is a place where business happens, where men meet to unwind, where men smoke and drink and talk dirty to their hearts’ content. For a young man, the strip club provides a fine setting for his mind to learn about what men do in their free time. Not only that, but it might help him understand why you’re so late in getting home every once in a while.

Teach him how to cut a piece of meat
When I first left home, I got my first and only present from my father. It consisted of a meat cleaver, a set of steak knives and a knife-sharpener. He was making the point that a man may not know how to blend spices like the Iron Chef, however he should not only know how to carve the Christmas turkey but also how to prepare and cook a good piece of meat. So when you fire up the barbecue, get your son involved. If you want to raise a man, make him drop a steak on the grill, teach him how long to leave the steak on the heat and have him slice the meat. That way, you can relax with a cigar while little Johnny takes care of making it rare.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Today is Thursday

September 11, 2008 (V7 for Al-Qaeda Wars against US)

For Capricorn

The Bottom Line

Don't strategize life based on how much money you want. Focus on quality of life.

In Detail

This is not a good time to strategize your life based on how much money you want to make. Your career advancement should be structured around what you want to learn, what you want to gain experience doing, and the types of people you want to interact with. Doing something just because it will earn you more money than something else is way too shortsighted. And you don't want to be stuck in a trap later on, unable to break free. Focus on what you want to do, not how much you want to make.

Friday, September 5, 2008

Samad is Utusan

Oleh ZAINUDDIN MAIDIN, Utusan Malaysia, 5 September 2008



Sekalipun Tokoh Wartawan Negara, Abdul Samad Ismail telah meninggalkan Utusan Melayu lama sebelum pemergian abadinya dengan bertugas di akhbar-akhbar lain tetapi tidak ada suatu zaman yang lebih besar dan lebih bererti sepanjang 84 tahun usianya kecuali hari-harinya di Utusan Melayu selama lebih 17 tahun. Hari-hari inilah yang terus memburu hidupnya, menjadi ceritanya sepanjang masa, mempengaruhi dan membentuk keperibadiannya, menjadi kenang-kenangan hebat, indah dan keagungan hidupnya.

Menurut riwayat isterinya Allahyarhamah Hamidah Hassan, Samad tetap orang Utusan ketika berkerja di Berita Harian dan pada satu masa Samad adalah Utusan dan Utusan adalah Samad (lihat buku A. Samad Ismail Journalisme and Politics susunan Cheah Boon Kheng).

Memulakan kariernya di Utusan Melayu di Singapura pada umur 16 tahun ketika Utusan yang dilahirkan pada 29 Mei 1939, baru berumur setahun jagung, Samad tidak sahaja sebagai wartawan tetapi juga pejuang yang berhempas pulas bersama-sama pengasas Utusan Melayu, Yusoff Ishak dan beberapa orang wartawan yang jauh lebih dewasa daripadanya untuk memastikan Utusan Melayu terus hidup sebagai suara dan wadah perjuangan bangsa.

Samad tidak mengambil kira tentang kedudukannya dalam Utusan ketika itu sehinggalah beliau ditahan di bawah undang-undang darurat pada tahun 1951 kerana kegiatan politik kirinya dalam Parti Kebangsaan Melayu (PKM) dan Putera-AMCIA. Utusan terpaksa mencari istilah nama jawatannya.

Hanya setelah dibebaskan pada tahun 1953 barulah kedudukan beliau dirasmikan sebagai Timbalan Pengarang “tetapi itu pun tanpa surat rasmi” katanya dalam tulisannya di Utusan Melayu keluaran 50 tahun pada 29 Mei 1989. Menurutnya pada mereka yang terdidik di Utusan sebanyak sedikit nilai hidup zaman permulaan mereka di Utusan Melayu masih kekal hingga sekarang.

“Pada kami Utusan adalah warisan bangsa yang diamanahkan kepada kami untuk membela dan memperjuangkan cita-cita kebangsaan.”

Pemisahannya daripada Utusan Melayu tanpa kerelaannya menjelang kemerdekaan Malaya pada tahun I957 adalah suatu episod yang amat melukakan hatinya.

“Sampai mati pun aku tidak akan lupa aku tidak dapat melihat perayaan kemerdekaan tanah airku,” katanya kepada wartawan anak didiknya di Utusan Melayu, Allahyarham Ali Salim yang terkenal dengan panggil Jiro.

Samad dihantar menjadi wakil Utusan Melayu di Jakarta kerana menurut apa dimaklumkan kepadanya oleh Yusoff Ishak, Ketua Pengarang dan Pengarah Urusan Utusan bahawa beliau tidak disenangi oleh kerajaan Perikatan yang bakal berkuasa di Malaya dan sekiranya beliau terus mengetuai Jabatan Pengarang Utusan Melayu, Utusan tidak akan mendapat lesen cetak apabila berpindah ke Kuala Lumpur. Bagaimanapun singa UMNO, Syed Jaafar Albar yang mempunyai hubungan baik dengan Samad pada masa itu memberitahu Samad dalam sepucuk suratnya bertarikh 2 Julai 1957 bahawa hal itu “palsu yang direka-reka oleh kapitalis – yang oportunis.”

Siapakah di belakang perancangan pertukarannya itu tidak diketahui tetapi ramai orang tahu bahawa Lee Kuan Yew, Ketua Menteri Singapura yang pernah menjadi peguam Utusan mempunyai hubungan rapat dengan Yusoff Ishak. Kuan Yew tidak senang dengan Samad yang bersekongkol dengan kumpulan kiri dalam PAP yang diketuai Lim Chin Siong. Samad adalah salah seorang pengasas PAP bersama dengan Kuan Yew tetapi kerana tidak sefahaman, beliau mengundurkan diri.

Kuan Yew melantik Yusoff Ishak menjadi Presiden Singapura yang pertama setelah beliau meninggalkan Utusan atas desakan anggota Jabatan Pengarang dan kakitangan Utusan Melayu di Kuala Lumpur dalam tahun I959.

Pak Samad tidak disenangi dan ditakuti oleh Kuan Yew mungkin kerana kepintarannya dan juga pengaruhnya yang luas di kalangan masyarakat Melayu, puak kiri daripada semua kaum termasuk kesatuan sekerja dan kalangan pelajar menengah Cina di Singapura. Di dalam buku memoirnya yang kedua From Third World to First World, Kuan Yew mendakwa Samad sebagai anggota Parti Komunis Malaya sejak tahun 1950. Buku ini juga menceritakan peranan Kuan Yew dalam konspirasi dengan Kerajaan Malaysia bagi menahan Samad di bawah Akta Keselamatan Dalam Negeri (ISA) dalam tahun 1976 selepas kematian Perdana Menteri, Tun Abdul Razak. Ia menampakkan dendam yang tidak berkesudahan Kuan Yew terhadap Samad sekalipun beliau telah berhijrah ke Kuala Lumpur setelah meninggalkan Utusan Melayu untuk berkhidmat dengan Berita Harian sejak 1958 apabila pulang dari Jakarta.

Di Straits Times (ST) Kuala Lumpur di samping tugas kewartawanannya, Samad meneruskan peranannya sebagai seorang nasionalis dan pejuang politik dengan merancang pengambilan alih Straits Times daripada penguasaan asing yang bertunjang di Singapura. Ini menepati apa yang dikatakan oleh isterinya Hamidah; “He was not too anxious to surrender his individuality to his new employers.”

Berbeza

Menurut Cheah Boon Kheng yang ketika itu bertugas sebagai penulis rencana di Straits Times, Samad telah mengambil kesempatan untuk meneruskan agendanya ketika tindakan perusahaan ‘kerja perlahan’ anggota Jabatan Pengarang Straits Times di Kuala Lumpur kerana tidak puas hati dengan perbezaan gaji dan lain-lain layanan kerja yang terlalu jauh berbeza dengan pegawai-pegawai asing. Boon Kheng menulis dalam A.Samad Ismail Journalisme and Politics bahawa Samad yang merancang gerakan yang membawa kepada Perdana Menteri, Tun Abdul Razak dan Tunku Razaleigh ketika itu Menteri Kewangan mengarahkan syarikat Straits Times memindahkan pemilikannya ke tangan rakyat Malaysia.

Sebelum itu Kesatuan Kebangsaan Wartawan Malaysia (NUJ) yang saya sebagai Presidennya dan Hor Sai Kong daripada Straits Times sebagai Setiausaha Agungnya telah menyampaikan sebuah memorandum yang bertajuk Expatriates in The Malaysian Press kepada Perdana Menteri Tun Abdul Razak menuntut supaya wartawan tempatan mengambil alih Jabatan Pengarang Straits Times. Bagaimanapun pada mulanya kami menghadapi masalah untuk mendapat temu janji dengan Tun Abdul Razak. Saya telah menjemput Datuk Harun Idris, Ketua Pemuda UMNO Malaysia untuk bercakap di Utusan mengenai perlunya pemilikan media oleh rakyat Malaysia sendiri terutamanya akhbar Inggeris.

Oleh kerana sudah timbul bunga-bunga persaingan politik antara Datuk Harun dengan Tun Abdul Razak pada masa itu maka langkah membawa Datuk Harun ke Utusan telah membantu memudahkan pertemuan kami dengan Tun Abdul Razak. Tiba-tiba Hor Sai Kong memberitahu saya bahawa jalan terbuka sekarang. Saya tahu siapakah yang mengaturkan pertemuan itu. Pucuk pimpinan NUJ dengan diketuai saya (Utusan Melayu) dan disertai Hor Sai Kong (Straits Times), Philip Mathews (Straits Times) dan C.C.Liew (Sin Chew) telah menemui Tun Abdul Razak di pejabatnya untuk hanya kira-kira lima minit sahaja bagi menyampaikan memorandum berkenaan yang mempunyai fakta lengkap jumlah rakyat asing dalam Jabatan Pengarang Straits Times, pendapatan mereka dan keistimewaan yang mereka dapat yang jauh lebih baik daripada rakyat tempatan dan carta jabatan pengarang yang menunjukkan bilangan dan kedudukan wartawan asing di Straits Times termasuk dari Singapura.

Memoradum itu yang bertarikh 17 Januari 1972 menekankan tentang ancaman terhadap pembangunan nasionalisme dan budaya Malaysia sekiranya orang asing terus menguasai Jabatan Pengarang akhbar-akhbar di Malaysia terutamanya akhbar Inggeris tetapi tidak mencadangkan pengambilahan syarikat Straits Times oleh rakyat tempatan. Saya masih menyimpan memorandum itu hingga kini.

Kami tidak bercakap panjang dengan Tun Abdul Razak kerana kami yakin segala-galanya telah diterangkan lebih dahulu kepadanya oleh Samad Ismail. Setiausaha Akhbar Perdana Menteri, Abdullah Majid meminta supaya kami tidak menulis berita pertemuan itu tetapi saya telah menyiarkannya di muka hadapan Utusan Melayu dan Utusan Malaysia.

Tidak lama kemudian berlakulah perubahan drastik dengan nama The Straits Times ditukar menjadi New Straits Times (NST) dan jabatan pengarang dan pengurusannya disusun semula dengan memberikan kedudukan penting kepada anak tempatan. Lembaga pengarah NST yang baru dilantik terdiri daripada semuanya rakyat Malaysia. Boon Kheng menyifatkannya sebagai suatu kejayaan kudeta Samad Ismail di The Straits Times.

Sesungguhnya hubungan Samad yang begitu rapat dengan Tun Abdul Razak, tidak menyenangkan beberapa pihak dalam UMNO yang mahu mencabar kedudukan Tun Abdul Razak sebagai Presiden UMNO.

Dalam pertarungan ini sekali lagi Samad Ismail dimomokan memainkan peranan ‘komunis’ di belakang layar dan Kuan Yew di Singapura yang tidak senang dengan pemulihan Samad yang rapat dengan Tun Abdul Razak kemudiannya melihat ini sebagai suatu kesempatan baginya untuk menyekat kemaraan Samad dalam politik di Malaysia. Berikutan dengan kematian Tun Abdul Razak, berlakulah tangkapan yang popular dengan panggilan “Tiga Abdul” iaitu Abdul Samad Ismail, Abdullah Ahmad dan Abdullah Majid di bawah ISA pada tahun 1976.

Ketidakpercayaan Kuan Yew pada Samad tidak pernah berakhir walaupun Samad telah berpindah ke Malaysia. Saya sendiri dapat merasakan ini apabila di akhir tahun 1964, kami wartawan-wartawan Malaysia menghadiri suatu majlis di Temasik kediaman Pesuruhjaya Tinggi Singapura di Kuala Lumpur yang diberikan oleh Kuan Yew dalam usaha merapatkan diri dengan wartawan Malaysia. Kuan Yew bertanya kepada Firdaus Abdullah (sekarang Profesor Datuk Firdaus) dalam bahasa Melayu: Saudara dari mana? Bila Firdaus memberitahu bahawa dia dari Berita Harian, Kuan Yew terus bertanya kenapa Samad tidak datang dan Firdaus memberitahu ‘dia melawat’ US Seventh Fleet yang berlabuh di Filipina atas jemputan. Dengan spontan Kuan Yew berkata “Habislah rahsia Amerika dia tahu.”

Saya hanya berkesempatan bergaul dengan Samad sesekali ketika mengikuti lawatan Tun Abdul Razak ke negeri-negeri Pantai Timur di awal 1970-an di mana saya sedikit sebanyak dapat menyelami perasaannya terhadap Utusan dan nasionalismenya. Saya lebih banyak tahu mengenainya dari wartawan yang pernah bersama berkerja dengannya seperti Jiro, Mazlan Nordin, Pak Melan dan mereka yang pernah berkerja di bawahnya.

Nama besar
Samad telah meninggalkan nama-nama besar anak didikannya dalam dunia kewartawanan dan kesusasteraan dan juga politik tetapi beliau tidak pernah mendakwa mendidik mereka menjadi besar dalam dunia masing-masing dengan sifat kerajinan, kesungguhan, komitmen dan dedikasi yang merupakan keperibadian Samad. Antara mereka ialah sasterawan dan wartawan Keris Mas, Osman Awang, Mazlan Nordin, Melan Abdullah, Osman Wok, Azhari Taib, Samad Idris, Osman Abadi dan ramai lagi. Mazlan Nordin (Tan Sri) masih gigih membaca dan menulis hingga ke hari ini.

Samad yang memperkenalkan Hadiah Kajai yang merupakan hadiah tertinggi kepada wartawan Malaysia terulung menerusi Institut Akhbar Malaysia (MPI) sebagai menghargai mahagurunya dalam dunia kewartawanan ketika usia mudanya di Utusan Melayu. Dalam tulisannya sempena keluaran khas Utusan Melayu 29 Mei I989 sempena Utusan Melayu 50 tahun di bawah tajuk Mengenang suatu zaman yang begitu besar, Samad berkata “Daripada Kajai saya belajar budaya kerja, nilai profesional saya, komitmen kepada bidang hidup saya dan saya rasa tanpa ketegasan Yusoff Ishak barangkali Utusan tidak akan survive.Beliau telah memberikan corak dan bentuk pimpinan yang diperlukan oleh Utusan di zaman itu; “tegas dan keras.” Samad melihat mereka yang berkerja dengan Utusan di zamannya merasakan “Utusan melambangkan segala yang luhur, mulia dan suci daripada perjuangan bangsa.”

Sesuatu yang saya ulangi membacanya berkali-kali dan mengharukan perasaan saya ialah bahagian terakhir tulisannya itu yang berbunyi:

“Seperti seorang ayah atau ibu yang lebih suka mengenang anaknya yang besar dan yang sudah dewasa, seolah-olah anaknya itu masih berusia enam tahun maka begitulah saya lebih berminat melihat Utusan bukan dalam bentuk dan rupanya sekarang, pada saat ini tahun I989 tetapi Utusan dalam zaman remajanya dan dalam zaman kecilnya.

“Mungkin kerana saya ingin mengenang ciri ciri manis sahaja daripada sejarah Utusan, atau mungkin saya keberatan menghadapi kenyataan sebenarnya bahawa di sebalik yang manis,terselip juga yang pahit.

“Tetapi saya akui ini adalah kelemahan saya sebagai manusia atau sebagai ayah yang hanya ingin mengenang anaknya yang sebenarnya sudah berumah tangga sekarang, ketika anaknya masih kecil lagi, ketika masih ditimbangnya lagi.

“Saya tidak akan jujur kalau saya tidak mengatakan bahawa sikap dan tanggapan saya, nilai dan norma-norma saya terbentuk dalam zaman saya berjuang di Utusan.

“Zaman itu tidak akan berulang lagi. Ia telah berakhir. Tulisan ini sekadar satu nostalgia sahaja untuk mengenang satu zaman yang begitu besar ertinya pada hidup saya dan teman-teman lain.”

Ketika tersebar berita saya tersingkir daripada jawatan Ketua Pengarang Utusan Melayu pada akhir tahun 1992, anak didik kesayangan Samad, Sasterawan Negara, Osman Awang menelefon saya; “Zam, saya rasakan sepi hari ini. Saudara adalah warisan terakhir Utusan.” Saya tidak tahu sama ada ini benar atau tidak tetapi apa pun perbezaan pandangan politik saya dengan Pak Samad, Osman Awang, Said Zahari dan Pak Sako tetapi ada suatu jalinan perasaan warisan yang mengikat erat antara kami yang diharapkan akan terus turun dari generasi ke generasi.

Utusan adalah suatu lambang perjuangan berani, nekad dan penuh dengan komitmen yang dilambangkan oleh penglibatan wartawan-wartawannya menerusi penulisan dan sebagai aktivis politik secara terang-terangan sejak awal penubuhannya seperti Pak Sako, Tajuddin Kahar, Melan Abdullah, Said Zahari dan lain-lain tetapi Samad Ismail lebih tersembunyi di sebalik tabir politik yang pelbagai dari kiri hingga ke kanan.

Sekalipun tidak berada di barisan depan parti-parti politik yang disertainya sejak usianya yang begitu muda namun peranan kewartawanan politiknya menyokong gerakan anti kolonialisme menerusi gerakan nasionalisme Nusantara dan antarabangsa dan politik dalam negara dengan daya inteleknya yang tinggi dan kebijaksanaan perancangan dan penyusunan organisasi menjadikannya nama besar dalam dunia politik, berpengaruh, ditakuti dan senantiasa disyaki dan diikuti yang membawanya masuk dari zaman penjajahan hingga di tanah airnya yang merdeka.

Kehidupannya yang penuh dengan tekanan, cabaran, buruan, kejayaan dan kegagalan, timbul dan tenggelam menjadikannya wartawan lain daripada yang lain, menyebabkan beliau mendapat perhatian dan simpati, disegani dan dihormati. Beliau dilihat lebih besar daripada tokoh-tokoh wartawan lain di negara ini.

Kembalinya A. Samad Ismail ke rahmatullah adalah pemergian abadi seorang wira kewartawanan politik yang terhebat di negara ini. Saya mencatatkan kembali sebuah sajak pendek dalam tulisan terakhir di kolum Awang Selamat pada Mingguan Malaysia 1 November 1992 yang rasa sesuai untuk dibacakan semula sempena pemergian A.Samad Ismail ang telah menanam benih dan idealisme perjuangan dalam Utusan Melayu.

Kawan kawan,
Dari 1939 sampai kini
Api ini tidak pernah mati
dimarakan ganti berganti
dalam chahayanya anak-anak menari
satu tangan terbakar
sejuta tangan menggengamnya
lebih erat lagi
maka keramatlah sebuah institusi
yang memahkotakan rakyat
dari generasi ke generasi.

P/S: Farewell Comrade, May ALLAH be with you...AMIN

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Happy Ramadhan to ALL

Assalammualaikum warahmatullah..

Sempena ketibaan bulan Ramadhan, bulan penuh rahmat dan pengampunan, saya memohon ampun dan maaf atas segala dosa, kejahatan, kesilapan, dan ketidakadilan sekiranya pernah saya lakukan kpd kamu, secara sengaja atau tidak. Secara terang atau tidak, dan dgn fikiran yg waras mahupun dgn amarah dan bisikan iblis laknatullah. Saya juga dgn penuh rasa kasih, kasih kpd saudara seagama, mengakui memaafkan segala dosa, dan kesilapan sekiranya pernah kamu lakukan kpd saya, secara terang mahupun sebaliknya. Semoga kita menyambut Ramadhan dengan penuh rasa takut kpd Allah, takut kpd azabNya, dan takut kpd Neraka jahannam. Semoga kita penuhi masa Ramadhan, dgn pengampunan, taubat, dan kesucian hati.

English:

As Ramadhan coming, the holy and spiritual month with full of forgiveness for those who pray for it.

Friday, August 29, 2008

Kedah bars concerts

The Star, Friday, 29 August 2008, By Sira Habibu
ALOR STAR: It’s goodbye to rock, reggae, pop and dangdut concerts in Kedah. The Pakatan Rakyat state government has imposed a blanket ban on such concerts until further notice because, it said, such shows could have a negative influence on youths.

“We do not condone any gelek-gelek (gyrating movements) on stage,” said state executive councillor Dr Ismail Salleh.

“We are currently formulating a comprehensive guideline for concerts. Until then, concerts of such nature are banned,” he told The Star here yesterday.

Dr Ismail, who is state PAS liaison committee member, said the state government was not against entertainment.

“We just do not want to allow the type of entertainment that could negatively influence people,” he said.

Dr Ismail said concerts involving nasyid and patriotic songs were allowed. He said the Ambang Merdeka concert at Stadium Darul Aman tomorrow night would proceed.

“We have invited artiste Roy and Kopratasa band to sing patriotic songs,” he said in response to a last-minute cancellation of a daytime mini-concert in Menara Alor Star recently. Dr Ismail said the guidelines on concerts set by Jakim would be implemented in Kedah.

“The federal guidelines are there but, so far, only Kelantan has implemented them,” he said.
P/S: What happen to Islam Hadhari Pak Lah? They make a rule but didn't implement it...such a Musyrik...

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

IAC

Alhamdulillah...Finally I joint one of top notch consultancy firm in the country.

Innovation Associates is a group of companies, focused on providing end-to-end solutions to our clients specializing in consultancy, IT solutions and outsourcing.

They are staffed by a team of experienced consultants, IT and HR specialists managed by former Partners of Ernst & Young Consulting and Vice Presidents of Cap Gemini Ernst & Young (CGE&Y). This endows Innovation Associates with local leadership and expertise enhanced by international knowledge and experience. Over the years we have also garnered valuable insights on strategic business and economic issues, national agenda and global knowledge on best practices.

The team has successfully completed large scale projects involving complex business transformation and systems implementation. Most of the projects span across several key industries such as telecommunications, energy, financial services, agri-business and public sector.

P/S: I will join Education and Training Project Management in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia after Idul Fitri...INSYALLAH...AMIN

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

UiTM = Bodoh Sombong

When you, as bumiputeras, object to allow 'others' to study in UiTM, you are deemed to be intellectually afraid to compete academically with 'others'; in this case, 'the non-bumiputras'.

And we are talking about an intake of only 10 % non-bumiputeras, who may NOT even be the cream amongst them.

And when you are scared to compete academically with "others", even if you think you are the best of the lot, you are nothing more than a "one-eyed king in the kingdom of the blind."

Tan Sri Khalid wasn't asking you to compete with the world's best students, nor did he suggest that you compete with the cream of the non-bumiputeras, that's assuming they would be interested to apply for their course of choice at the UiTM.

It says a lot about your weak mindset when 90 % of you are NOT ready to take head-on 10 % of non-bumiputeras in your class rooms and compete with them in the academic exams. You will always be known as, what we call, "intellectual cowards".

The proposal has nothing to do with wanting to deny 10% bumiputeras of tertiary education as there are other universities in the country .

Tan Sri Khalid, as a Malay/bumiputera himself who had seen enough in the private sector of the kind of quality of bumiputera graduates being mass-produced by some of our local public universities, is making his proposal for your own good, for the good of UiTM, for the good of the Malay/bumiputera community and for the good of the country.

The reasons for your objection are more due to your lack of sense of security, your self-worth, your self confidence and your paranoia of 'others', inculcated by the racially-based parochial policies of this UMNO-led Government over the last 50 years.

And that is sadly, the truth, however much you would want to deny.

In any case, the quality of education in UiTM is nothing to crow about when compared to most other local public and private universities. Don't even try to match UiTM's academic performance with renown universities in other countries in the Asia-Pacific region.

Incidentally, we do NOT agree with blogger Datuk Ruhanie Ahmad that the proposal has anything to do with politics. That is a silly and ridiculous accusation.

All the tough talk by Datuk Ruhanie Ahmad and others in opposing Tan Sri Khalid's proposal is being "bodoh sombong."
Malaysian Unplug

20 Dates for Under RM20











If you're not careful, dating can be a really expensive pastime. To impress your date, you may pull out all the stops -- fancy meals on the town, lavish trips, or high-priced events. But in many cases, there's no need to spend tons of money to create a fantastic date.

For instance, think of all the favorite dates you've experienced. I'm guessing some of them were memorable moments that didn't cost you a lot of money. As long as a date features an activity you and your date enjoy together, there's no need to splurge for every occasion.

I've devised a simple list of 20 date ideas for under 20 dollars.“Whether you want adventure, romance, outdoor exploration, or cultural exposure, there are plenty of low-cost options to choose from.” Whether you want adventure, romance, outdoor exploration, or cultural exposure, there are plenty of low-cost options to choose from.

Adventurous Dates:

1) Play tourist in your city for a day. Buy a guidebook and discover interesting walking tours.
2) If you and your date enjoy photography, pack your cameras and go on a photography adventure together.
3) Dine at an affordable restaurant offering Eastern cuisine -- like Chinese or Indian -- and enjoy a cheaper and more exotic meal than your usual date fare.
4) Check out your local paper or the Internet for free events or festivals in your area.
5) Visit your city's famous landmarks that you probably take for granted or haven't seen since you were a little kid!

Romantic Dates:

1) Hang out at a cozy or charming cafe for a dessert and a drink.
2) Meet for a glass of wine at a wine bar in an interesting area before taking a stroll in the neighborhood.
3) If you've hung out a few times... invite your date over and make a gourmet pizza together.
4) Take a Salsa dance class, which is often cheap or free.
5) Rent a rowboat with your date on a sunny day.

Outdoor Dates:

1) Go on a bike ride or walk that includes a destination offering ice cream or a cold drink.
2) Shoot hoops, play frisbee, or rollerblade. Sports are great for competitive flirting!
3) If one or both of you have a dog, visit a dog park together.
4) Plan a picnic. Impress your date with a fun dish.
5) Go fly a kite (just don't tell your date that or he/she may get offended...)

Cultural Dates:

1) Check out your city's indie bands. It's a great way to support local musicians and the cover is cheap.
2) Go see live comedy. Even if it stinks, you'll still laugh.
3) See an old film at a repertory movie house.
4) Attend a lecture or a workshop on a topic that you're both interested in learning more about.
5) Enjoy a gallery or museum together (many galleries even have pay what you can).

When planning your next date, remember that you can have fun without spending lots of money. Instead of succumbing to a lavish dating routine, substitute the ordinary extravagance with one of my creative options.

P/S: I choose Adventure Date no. 2...say sweet...click2

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Woman seeks rich husband

NEW YORK (Reuters) - Deal or no deal? An online exchange between a woman looking for a husband who earns more than $500,000 a year and a mystery Wall Street banker, who assessed her potential for romance as a business deal, has cause quite an Internet stir. The anonymous 25-year-old woman recently posted an ad on the free online New York community Web site Craigslist, http://newyork.craigslist.org/, appealing for advice on how to find a wealthy husband.

"I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don't think I'm overreaching at all," the woman, who described herself as "spectacularly beautiful" and "superficial," wrote.

"I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that's where I seem to hit a roadblock. $250,000 won't get me to Central Park West," she said, asking questions like "where do rich single men hang out?"

The mystery banker, who said he fit the bill, offered the woman an analysis of her predicament, describing it as "plain and simple a crappy business deal."

"Your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity ... in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful!" the banker wrote.

"So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset," he said. "Let me explain, you're 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!"

"It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) so I'd rather lease," he said.

While the woman has since removed the ad from Craigslist, it -- along with the response -- has become a popular email joke that, bank JPMorgan Chase says, led to one of its bankers mistakenly being credited with writing the response. Brian Marchiony, spokesman for JPMorgan Chase, said the banker did not write the response and that his email signature accidentally became attached to the ad and response when he forwarded it to friends and it then wound up on blogs. Craigslist was not immediately available for comment, but a spokeswoman told The New York Times that "it does look as if the post was made sincerely." (Reuters) Wed Oct 10, 10:39 AM ET 21-Nov-2007

Malaysian Cab in London

The next time you hail a Black Cab in London, don’t be surprised if the driver greets you with “Selamat datang”. You may have bumped into David Chan Phong Mun, 45, one of the handful of Malaysians out of the estimated 25,000 Black Cab drivers in London!

The former Tunku Abdul Rahman College (TARC) student not only drives the £34,000 (RM238,000) 2.4cc, five-seater limousine – which is as famous as London’s double-decker buses and Underground Tube trains – he also owns it. Touted as one of the world’s most popular taxis, the purpose-built distinctive cab comes equipped with a ramp for wheelchair passengers as well as special grips for the blind and the elderly.

But getting behind the wheel of the Black Cab is not as easy as it seems.

David Chan, one of the handful of Malaysian Black Cab drivers in London. Said Chan: “It took me nearly three years to obtain the green badge that allows me to carry passengers anywhere in London.” Indeed, Chan has likened the sitting of the series of tests for the badge as “even more stressful than getting a university degree.”

“Apart from the 400 fixed routes in London, you have also to remember every street, lane and each of the over 1,000 pubs, bars and restaurants in central London alone. “And London keeps changing, which makes it even more difficult. You can’t sleep the day before the test; you’re like a convict facing the gallows,” he added. But it’s worth the effort as Chan can finally be his own boss after getting his own Black Cab and badge in 2002.

“You can earn good money and enjoy freedom at the same time.

“If you’re hardworking, you can earn between £6,000 and £8,000 a month (RM42,000 and RM56,000), which is even higher than what some professionals, such as doctors, earn,” he smiled. For many drivers, it’s sheer hard work as they normally drive between 12 and 14 hours a day, seven days a week, subscribing to the belief that one should make hay while the sun shines.

A typical day in the afternoon shift begins around noon and ends about midnight or even 2am, depending whether the driver gets enough sleep. The Black Cab’s fares can be pretty intimidating, with a boarding rate of £2.20 (RM15.40) and rising thereafter by time or distance. Thus, an average fare per hour can come up to about £20 to £22 (RM140 and RM154; 6am-8pm); £27 to £30 (RM189 to RM210; 8pm-10pm) and £40 to £50 (RM280 to RM350; 10pm-6am). Lucrative it may seemed, many drivers have had their fair share of unpleasant encounters – robberies, verbal abuse from passengers stuck in traffic jams and drunkards as well as decent-looking people who walk off without paying.

“You win some, you lose some,” said Chan as a matter-of-factly.

For the Segamat-born Chan, his life has come full circle – from the time he finished his studies at Segamat High School in Johor to pursuing his A-levels at TARC in Kuala Lumpur in 1976. After working nine months as a croupier in Genting Highlands, he decided to head for England in 1979 at the age of 19.

Upon arriving at Heathrow Airport, he had an embarrassing incident which he remembers to this day. “While taking the train from Heathrow to Liverpool Street station, I panicked when I could not find the bell to press for the train to stop,” he laughed. That was his first time travelling in the underground train and nobody told him what to expect. It took Chan nearly one whole day to reach his sister’s house in Romford, Essex – a journey which normally takes an hour.

Determined to improve himself, Chan enrolled in a diploma course in Building (General Construction) at a college in Hackney, before obtaining a degree in quantity surveyance. He later qualified as a chartered quantity surveyor.

Between 1986 and 1998, he took on a host of jobs – quantity surveyor, courier delivery staff and finally, taxi fleet manager. With his knowledge of taxis and London’s streets, Chan decided to apply for the Black Cab badge in 1999. And the rest is history. Despite staying in Britain for 26 years, Chan’s heart still lies with Malaysia, saying he plans to retire in 10 years, probably in his hometown of Segamat.

Looking back, he wished he spent more time with his parents in Segamat and shown greater appreciation for them when they were still around.

For Malaysians planning to work in Britain, Chan’s advice is “Be prepared to work hard and save every penny you earn.” So, in case you’re in London, watch out for Chan’s Black Cab with registration number ULU 177. Better still, email him at david chan473@aol.com should you require his service. But be a wee bit generous with tips-lah to a fellow Malaysian!